Theodore R. “Ted” Gross
August 13, 1960 – August 4, 2025
Theodore R. Gross, more commonly and slightly less vociferously known as Tico or Ted, was born August 13th, 1960, in Antioch, California, to Bill and Angie Gross. He passed away at his home on August 4, 2025. He was the middle child of three boys, all of whom—like their father—displayed immense talent when it came to making noise of some kind.
As a child, Ted played sports like baseball, making it big when the newspaper reported him as a “highlight” of the (losing) Falcons. He also wreaked considerable havoc among the general populace with his younger brother Al: from lighting the lawn on fire and napping afterwards to breaking more glass than a window factory, this version of Ted probably contrasts with the quiet, exemplary homebody you may have known.
Shortly after attending Los Medanos College, he moved to Vegas, staying for two years. It was there that he adopted the alter-ego “Tico” and moonlit as Batman (if you don’t believe me, check out the reported Batman sightings before and after his arrival. The data speaks for itself). Once the thrill of being Vegas Batman wore off, Ted hung up the cowl and moved back home to Antioch, where he logged many, many years with the EPA before his retirement. Window factories and the fire department finally got to breathe a sigh of relief.
He continued his gift of making noise, albeit in a much more beautiful manner. If there’s a stringed instrument out there, Ted has probably touched it—though his true love was guitar. If there’s a guitar out there, Ted has probably mastered it. His second true love was the Yorkie breed, and his third was his family. There’s a Venn diagram in there somewhere.
All jokes aside, Ted was a man of strength, wit and creativity. He brought consistency to those in his life; his presence was steadying, a reminder that although times change the people we love are a constant. His style never wavered from the nineties, and he never gave up on the Niners despite many disastrous years. While we miss him immeasurably, we gain immense comfort in knowing that he’s reunited with Mom, Pop, Uncle Rusty and of course his pups Nikki and Kenji.
Ted is survived by his brothers Billy (Tina), Al (Julia), his nieces and nephews, and innumerable friends and family members. We feel his presence in every Niners game, pair of Levi’s, vintage guitar and sublime combo of Buds and Marlboro Reds.
Leave a Reply